Looking for ways to get your girlfriend back? Avoid looking desperate

The situation looks pretty grim after the breakup. My ex won’t return any of my phone calls and she has actually accused me of harassing her. In my own defense, I didn’t really call her that much – okay, maybe if you include the text messages, it might be a little over the top. But wouldn’t you think that it would simply tell her how much I still love her? Obviously, I have a lot to learn about ways to get your girlfriend back.

On a positive note, I had a good chat with a friend of mine and he made me realize that I’ll never get anywhere as long as I continue acting like that. Taking a passive stance has always been my way, but he made me see that I am giving away all my power and there is nothing left that she has any desire for. It really does make sense when you think about it.