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This is how Game Save/Load should be done: Start New Pokemon Diamond and Pokemon Pearl Game -> Press X (Menu Button) to show menu -> Select Save Game. (DO NOT use No$GBA Write State option in the emulator menu) -> For loading savegames, next time You start the emulator loads the Pokemon ROM and it will automatically display the saved game and you have the ability to load it or start a new game.
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